{"id":213727,"date":"2010-01-18T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-01-17T18:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.legalindia.com\/judgments\/poornima-misra-vs-sunil-misra-on-18-january-2010"},"modified":"2017-10-08T05:04:24","modified_gmt":"2017-10-07T23:34:24","slug":"poornima-misra-vs-sunil-misra-on-18-january-2010","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.legalindia.com\/judgments\/poornima-misra-vs-sunil-misra-on-18-january-2010","title":{"rendered":"Poornima Misra vs Sunil Misra on 18 January, 2010"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"docsource_main\">Allahabad High Court<\/div>\n<div class=\"doc_title\">Poornima Misra vs Sunil Misra on 18 January, 2010<\/div>\n<pre>                                 1\n\n                                                             Reserved\n\n                   First Appeal No. 11 of 2009\n\nSmt. Poornima Misra                        ...     Appellant\n                             Versus\nSunil Misra                                ...     Respondent\n\n                        Connected with\n\n                   First Appeal No. 10 of 2009\n\nSmt. Poornima Misra                        ...     Appellant\n                             Versus\nSunil Misra                                ...     Respondent\n                           -------------\n\nHon'ble Rajiv Sharma, J.\n<\/pre>\n<p>Hon&#8217;ble Dr. Satish Chandra, J.\n<\/p>\n<p>      Heard learned Counsel for the parties.\n<\/p>\n<p>      These appeals have been preferred by the appellant against<br \/>\nthe order dated 6.1.2009 whereby the application filed by the<br \/>\nappellant under Section 9 of the Hindu Marriage Act [in short it<br \/>\nhas been referred to as &#8216;Act&#8217;] was rejected and the Suit of the<br \/>\nrespondent-plaintiff under Section 13 of the Act was decreed.\n<\/p>\n<p>      In short, the facts, as comes out from the record, are that<br \/>\nthe marriage of Smt. Poornima Misra was solemnized with Sunil<br \/>\nMisra (respondent) on 29.1.2001 according to Hindu Vedic Rites at<br \/>\nLucknow. After the marriage, the wife performed all           marital<br \/>\nobligation as wife and gave due respect to the in-laws. In the<br \/>\nmarriage, the appellant&#8217;s father gave valuable gifts and jewellery<br \/>\nincluding one Maruti Car. But their in-laws were demanding more<br \/>\ndowry and started ill-treating the appellant. On account of the<br \/>\nmaltreatment of   in-laws, the appellant was compelled to leave<br \/>\nher matrimonial house. When the appellant was living with her<br \/>\nparents, the husband filed a Suit under Section 9 of the Act for<br \/>\nrestitution of conjugal rights. After expiry of one year, the said<br \/>\nSuit was withdrawn and a petition for divorce under Section 13 of<br \/>\nthe Act on the ground of cruelty, was moved. In this petition, the<br \/>\nrespondent also averred that the appellant pressurized the<br \/>\nrespondent to live separately from her parents and started<br \/>\nneglecting the parents. The appellant also terminated the<br \/>\npregnancy to get herself free from the marital obligation. The<br \/>\n<span class=\"hidden_text\">                                     2<\/span><\/p>\n<p>application for divorce was contested by the appellant and the<br \/>\nallegations were denied. The appellant-Poornima Misra moved an<br \/>\napplication for maintenance under Section 24 of the Act and also<br \/>\nfiled an application for restitution of conjugal rights under Section<br \/>\n9 of the Act. Both the petitions were contested by the respondent-<br \/>\nhusband by leading documentary evidence, such as, F.I.R.,<br \/>\nstatement of witnesses and charge-sheet. The appellant in<br \/>\nsupport of her assertions also adduced oral and documentary<br \/>\nevidence.\n<\/p>\n<p>      The Family Court, after analyzing the materials on record,<br \/>\nthe statement of witnesses and numerous case laws, passed the<br \/>\ndetailed order rejecting the application under Section 9 of the Act<br \/>\nand granted the decree of divorce.\n<\/p>\n<p>      Hence these appeals.\n<\/p>\n<p>      At the time of entertaining the appeal, this Court stayed the<br \/>\noperation of the impugned judgments dated 6.1.2009, but<br \/>\nprovided that the parties shall appear in person so that the<br \/>\ndispute may be settled amicably. From the order sheet, it comes<br \/>\nthat the parties did appear before the Court, but amicable<br \/>\nsettlement of the dispute failed.\n<\/p>\n<p>      On number of occasions, the parties appeared and on one<br \/>\ndate, as there was no possibility of amicable settlement, the Court<br \/>\nsuggested the respondent to give Rs.10 lakhs as permanent<br \/>\nalimony to settle the dispute. The husband was ready to pay Rs.7<br \/>\nlakhs and the Counsel for the appellant prayed for time for<br \/>\nsettlement, which was allowed. When the case again came up, the<br \/>\nappellant showed reluctance and the Counsel stated that as the<br \/>\nappellant is ready to live with her husband, as such, she is not<br \/>\ninterested in accepting the permanent alimony and insisted for<br \/>\ndeciding the case on merits.\n<\/p>\n<p>      Learned Counsel for the appellant has contended that the<br \/>\nFamily Court committed an error in allowing the Suit of<br \/>\nrespondent under Section 13 of the Act and rejecting the<br \/>\napplication of the appellant under Section 9 of the Act without<br \/>\nrecording any specific finding of cruelty by the appellant and also<br \/>\n<span class=\"hidden_text\">                                  3<\/span><\/p>\n<p>overlooked that irretrievable breakdown of a marriage is not a<br \/>\nground of divorce. The trial against the respondent under Section<br \/>\n498-A I.P.C. is still pending and they have yet not been acquitted.<br \/>\nHe further submitted that the appellant has not left the<br \/>\nmatrimonial house on her own wish or consent but the members<br \/>\nof the family of the respondents forced her to leave the<br \/>\nmatrimonial house. The appellant is still ready to live with the<br \/>\nrespondent-husband. The Court below also erred and failed to<br \/>\nappreciate that the sanctity of the marriage cannot be left at the<br \/>\nwish of one annoying spouse. In order to show that the impugned<br \/>\norder is erroneous, reliance has been placed upon the cases of<br \/>\nSmt. Beena Versus Suresh Vir Tomer [1995 (25) ALR 277]<br \/>\nand Savitri Pandey Versus Prem Chandra Pandey [(2002) 2<br \/>\nSCC 73].\n<\/p>\n<p>      He further submitted that the wife has been made to suffer<br \/>\ngreat agony and pain as the members of the family of the<br \/>\nrespondents had not only ill-treated her but also manhandled<br \/>\nwhich resulted in miscarriage of pregnancy. Despite all these<br \/>\nconducts and misbehaviour of the respondent, the appellant is<br \/>\nready to forgive all these things and wants to live with her<br \/>\nhusband.\n<\/p>\n<p>      On behalf of the respondent, it has been submitted that the<br \/>\nFamily Court has passed the just and reasonable order after<br \/>\nappreciating the materials on record. The Family Court rightly<br \/>\nrejected the application under Section 9 of the Act and allowed<br \/>\nthe application under Section 13 of the Act as it was satisfied that<br \/>\nthe respondent has been able to establish cruelty by the<br \/>\nappellant. He further submitted that the parties to the appeal are<br \/>\nliving separately for the last nine years and there is no chance of<br \/>\nreconciliation and the marriage has broken down irretrievably. He<br \/>\nfurther submitted that on account of false report lodged by the<br \/>\nappellant, the respondent and his father were remained in jail for<br \/>\ntwelve days which lowered their image in the society.\n<\/p>\n<p>      In order to establish that it is virtually impossible for the<br \/>\nparties to live together and the decree of divorce is the only<br \/>\nrecourse left and to justify that the order of the Family Court is<br \/>\n<span class=\"hidden_text\">                                    4<\/span><\/p>\n<p>perfectly legal, reliance has been placed upon the cases of Smt.<br \/>\nMeena Singh Versus Mithlesh Kumar Singh [(2009 (3) ALJ<br \/>\n303], Satish Sitole Versus Ganga (Smt.) [(2008) 7 SCC<br \/>\n734], Smt. Mayadevi Versus Jagdish Prasad [2007 AIR<br \/>\nSCW 1803], Sujata Uday Patil Versus Uday Madhukar Pathil<br \/>\n[2007 AIR SCW 896], Naveen Kohli Versus Neelu Kholi<br \/>\n[(2006) 4 SCC 558], Durga Prasanna Tripathi Versus<br \/>\nArundhati Tripathi [(2005) 7 SCC 353], Jayachandra<br \/>\nVersus Aneel Kaur [AIR 2005 SC 534], Poonam Gupta<br \/>\nVersus Ghanshyam Gupta [AIR 2003 (All) 51], <a href=\"\/doc\/1386587\/\">G. V. N.<br \/>\nKameshwar Rao Versus G. Jabilli<\/a> [(2002) 2 SCC 296],<br \/>\nPraveen Mehta Versus Inderjit Mehta [11 (2002) DMC 205<br \/>\n(SC)] and Smt. Kalpana Srivastava Versus Surendra nath<br \/>\n[AIR 1985 (All) 253].\n<\/p>\n<p>         In   Smt. Meena Singh Versus Mithlesh Kumar Singh<br \/>\n(supra), the appeal was preferred by the wife against the decree<br \/>\nof divorce granted on the ground of mental cruelty. The Division<br \/>\nBench of this Court while confirming the decree of divorce granted<br \/>\npermanent alimony and observed as under:-\n<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>         &#8220;11. In view of the aforesaid decisions, to end the<br \/>\n         miseries of the parties and to allow them to<br \/>\n         henceforth live a happy and peaceful life by bringing<br \/>\n         to an end the litigation appear to be a more sound,<br \/>\n         reasonable and practical decision. The parties are<br \/>\n         living separately for many years and there is no<br \/>\n         possibility of their uniting. Thus, for all practical<br \/>\n         purposes the marriage is completely dead. In view of<br \/>\n         the above and the allegations\/counter-allegations<br \/>\n         levelled against each other with regard to their<br \/>\n         character the element of cruelty on part of both of<br \/>\n         them is also inherent. &#8230;&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>         <a href=\"\/doc\/1386587\/\">In G. V. N. Kameshwar Rao Versus G. Jabilli<\/a> (supra),<br \/>\nthe Apex Court observed that the mental cruelty faced by the<br \/>\nappellant is to be assessed having regard to his status in life and<br \/>\nhis educational background and the environment in which he<br \/>\nlived.\n<\/p>\n<p>         The Apex Court in the case of <a href=\"\/doc\/1415536\/\">Satish Sitole v. Ganga<\/a><br \/>\n(supra) ruled and laid down that the living of parties to a marriage<br \/>\nseparately for a long time, making acrimonious allegations against<br \/>\n<span class=\"hidden_text\">                                   5<\/span><\/p>\n<p>each other amounts to cruelty and continuance of such marriage<br \/>\nis further act of cruelty.\n<\/p>\n<p>      The expression of &#8216;cruelty&#8217; in detail has been considered in<br \/>\nSmt. Mayadevi Versus Jagdish Prasad (supra) by the Hon&#8217;ble<br \/>\nSupreme Court. In paragraph 9 of the judgment, the Supreme<br \/>\nCourt observed as under:-\n<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>             &#8220;&#8230;. The concept, a proof of beyond the shadow<br \/>\n      of doubt, is to be applied to criminal trials and not to<br \/>\n      civil matters and certainly not to matters of such<br \/>\n      delicate personal relationship as those of husband and<br \/>\n      wife. Therefore, one has to see what are the<br \/>\n      probabilities in a case and legal cruelty has to be<br \/>\n      found out, not merely as a matter of fact, but as the<br \/>\n      effect on the mind of the complaint spouse because of<br \/>\n      the acts or omissions of the other. Cruelty may be<br \/>\n      physical or corporal or may be mental. In physical<br \/>\n      cruelty, there can be tangible and direct evidence, but<br \/>\n      in the case of mental cruelty, there may not at the<br \/>\n      same time be direct evidence. In cases where there is<br \/>\n      no direct evidence, Courts are required to probe into<br \/>\n      the mental process and mental effect of incidents that<br \/>\n      are brought out in evidence. It is in this view that one<br \/>\n      has to consider the evidence in matrimonial disputes.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>      The Apex Court in another case, namely, <a href=\"\/doc\/814683\/\">Sujata Uday<br \/>\nPatil v. Uday Madhukar Patil<\/a> (supra) again examined the<br \/>\ncruelty and the kind of degree of cruelty which may amount to a<br \/>\nmatrimonial offence. The Supreme Court observed that the cruelty<br \/>\nmay be inferred from the facts and matrimonial relation of the<br \/>\nparties and interaction in their daily life disclosed by the evidence<br \/>\nand inference on the said point can only be drawn after all the<br \/>\nfacts have been taken into consideration. Where there is proof of<br \/>\na deliberate course of conduct on the part of one, intended to hurt<br \/>\nand humiliate the other spouse, and such a conduct is persisted,<br \/>\ncruelty can easily be inferred.\n<\/p>\n<p>      In para 72 of the judgment of the case of Naveen Kohli<br \/>\nVersus Neelu Kohli (supra), the Apex Court observed that the<br \/>\nlegislature must consider irretrievable breakdown of marriage as a<br \/>\nground for grant of divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act. The<br \/>\nApex Court referred the 71st report of Law Commission of India<br \/>\nwherein it was mentioned that restricting the ground of divorce to<br \/>\na particular offence or matrimonial disability, causes injustice in<br \/>\n<span class=\"hidden_text\">                                   6<\/span><\/p>\n<p>those cases where the situation is such that although none of the<br \/>\nparties is at fault, or the fault is of such a nature that the parties<br \/>\nto the marriage do not want to divulge it, yet there has arisen a<br \/>\nsituation in which the marriage cannot be worked. The marriage<br \/>\nhas all the external appearances of marriage, but none of the<br \/>\nreality. As is often put pithily, the marriage is merely a shell out of<br \/>\nwhich the substance is gone. In such circumstances, it is stated,<br \/>\nthere is hardly any utility in maintaining the marriage as a facade,<br \/>\nwhen the emotional and other bounds which are the essence of<br \/>\nmarriage have disappeared.\n<\/p>\n<p>      Following the principle of &#8216;live and let live&#8217; and the<br \/>\nprecedent laid down by the Apex Court, it is desirable and<br \/>\nexpedient in the interest of justice to uphold the decree of divorce<br \/>\npassed by the Family Court below and to dismiss the appeal.\n<\/p>\n<p>      Matrimonial disputes have to be decided by Courts in a<br \/>\npragmatic manner keeping in view the ground realities. For this<br \/>\npurpose a host of facts have to be taken into consideration and<br \/>\nthe most important being whether the marriage can be saved and<br \/>\nthe husband and wife can live together happily and maintain a<br \/>\nproper atmosphere at home for the upbringing of their offsprings.\n<\/p>\n<p>      We have been principally impressed by the consideration<br \/>\nthat once the marriage has broken down beyond repair, it would<br \/>\nbe unrealistic for the law not to take notice of that fact, and it<br \/>\nwould be harmful to society and injurious to the interests of the<br \/>\nparties. Where there has been a long period of continuous<br \/>\nseparation, it may fairly be surmised that the matrimonial bond is<br \/>\nbeyond repair. The marriage becomes a fiction, though supported<br \/>\nby a legal tie. By refusing to sever that tie the law in such cases<br \/>\ndoes not serve the sanctity of marriage; on the contrary, it shows<br \/>\nscant regard for the feelings and emotions of the parties.\n<\/p>\n<p>      In the instant case, the appellant could have suffered<br \/>\ntraumatic experience because of the police complaints on account<br \/>\nof which he and his father had to remain in jail as a consequence<br \/>\nwhereof there was loss of reputation and prestige in the society.<br \/>\nJust after the marriage, the appellant started complaining against<br \/>\n<span class=\"hidden_text\">                                         7<\/span><\/p>\n<p>the parents and brother Arun Kumar Misra, who was mentally<br \/>\nretarded with the sole object to get separate living from parents.<br \/>\nNot accepting the wish of the appellant, he earned annoyance and<br \/>\nthe wife left the matrimonial house without any information. In<br \/>\nthe application for divorce, the husband has stated that on<br \/>\n21.4.2001, he received a telephonic call from her mother-in-law<br \/>\nthat the appellant is ill and is admitted in Vivekanand Polyclinic.<br \/>\nWhen the respondent alongwith his father went there, they came<br \/>\nto know that pregnancy of the first child has been terminated. It<br \/>\nis in this background that the respondent filed an application for<br \/>\ndivorce on the ground of cruelty alleging that because of the acts<br \/>\nof cruelty on several occasions including the false criminal report<br \/>\nperpetuated by the appellant, the respondent-husband was under<br \/>\napprehension that it would not be desirable and safe to stay with<br \/>\nthe appellant and to continue their marital relationship.\n<\/p>\n<p>      The trial Court has examined the circumstances and the<br \/>\nbackground in order to reach the conclusion, whether the conduct<br \/>\ncomplained of amounts to cruelty in the matrimonial law. The<br \/>\ninstances of the circumstances and the cruelty highlighted by the<br \/>\ntrial Court clearly proves that the husband was subjected to<br \/>\nmental cruelty. At page 32 of the judgment, the Family Court<br \/>\nobserved as under:-\n<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>             \u0909\u0932\u0932\u0947\u0916\u0928\u0940\u092f \u0939\u0948 \u093f\u0915 \u0905\u0928\u092f \u092a\u0915 \u0915\u0947 \u0926\u093e\u0930\u093e \u0926\u093e\u093f\u0916\u0932 \u093f\u0915\u090f \u0917\u090f \u0905\u093f\u092d\u0932\u0947\u0916\u0940\u092f<br \/>\n      \u0938\u093e\u0915\u092f \u090f\u0935 \u092a\u0924\u093e\u0935\u0932\u0940 \u0915\u093e \u0938\u092e\u092a\u0942\u0923\u0930 \u0930\u092a \u0938\u0947 \u093f\u0935\u0936\u0932\u0947\u0937\u0923 \u090f\u0935 \u092e\u0942\u0932\u092f\u093e\u0915\u0928 \u0915\u0930\u0928\u0947 \u0938\u0947 \u092f\u0939<br \/>\n      \u0938\u092a\u0937 \u0939\u094b\u0924\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u093f\u0915 \u092a\u093f\u0924\u0935\u093e\u093f\u0926\u0928\u0940 \u0928\u0947 \u092f\u0939 \u0938\u0915\u0932\u092a \u0932\u0947 \u093f\u0932\u092f\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u093f\u0915 \u0935\u0939 \u0935\u093e\u0926\u0940 \u0915\u0947 \u091c\u0940\u0935\u0928<br \/>\n      \u0915\u094b \u092d\u0940 \u0928\u093e\u0930\u0915\u0940\u092f \u091c\u0940\u0935\u0928 \u092c\u0928\u093e\u0928\u0947 \u0915\u0947 \u093f\u0932\u090f \u0939\u0940 \u0935\u0947\u0926\u0928\u093e \u092e\u0947 \u091c\u0940\u0935\u0928 \u0935\u092f\u0924\u0940\u0924 \u0915\u0930\u0917\u0947 \u0940 \u0964 \u0907\u0938<br \/>\n      \u092a\u0915\u093e\u0930 \u0915\u0947 \u0905\u093f\u0921\u0902\u0917 \u0924\u0925\u093e \u0915\u0920\u094b\u0930 \u0926\u093f\u0937\u0915\u094b\u0923 \u0938\u0947 \u0907\u0938 \u0935\u093e\u0926 \u0915\u0947 \u0924\u0925\u092f\u094b \u0924\u0925\u093e \u092a\u0938\u0902\u0917 \u092e\u0947 \u092f\u0939<br \/>\n      \u0938\u0928\u0926\u0947\u0939 \u0939\u094b\u0928\u093e \u0938\u0935\u092d\u093e\u093f\u0935\u0915 \u0939\u0948 \u093f\u0915 \u092a\u093f\u0924\u0935\u093e\u093f\u0926\u0928\u0940 \u0935\u093e\u0926\u0940 \u0915\u0947 \u0938\u093e\u0925 \u092e\u093e\u0928\u093f\u0938\u0915 \u0915\u0942\u0930\u0924\u093e \u0915\u093e<br \/>\n      \u0935\u092f\u0935\u0939\u093e\u0930 \u0915\u0930\u0928\u0947 \u092a\u0930 \u0905\u095c\u0940 \u0939\u0941 \u0908 \u0939\u0948, \u091c\u092c \u093f\u0915 \u092f\u0939 \u0938\u092a\u0937 \u0939\u094b \u091c\u093e\u0924\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u093f\u0915 \u092a\u0915\u0915\u093e\u0930\u093e \u0915\u0947<br \/>\n      \u092e\u0927\u092f \u093f\u0935\u0935\u093e\u0939 \u0905\u092a\u093f\u0924\u0937\u093e\u092a\u092f \u0930\u092a \u0938\u0947 \u092d\u0917\u0902 \u0939\u094b \u0917\u092f\u093e \u0939\u0948 \u090f\u0935\u0902 \u0909\u0928\u0915\u0947 \u0938\u093e\u0925 \u0930\u0939\u0928\u0947 \u092f\u093e \u092a\u0941\u0928\u0903<br \/>\n      \u090f\u0915 \u0939\u094b\u0928\u0947 \u0915\u0940 \u0915\u094b\u0908 \u0938\u092e\u092d\u093e\u0935\u0928\u093e \u0928\u0939\u0940 \u0939\u0948 \u0964<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>      The foundation of a sound marriage is tolerance, adjustment<br \/>\nand respecting one another. Tolerance to each other&#8217;s fault to a<br \/>\ncertain bearable extent has to be inherent in every marriage.<br \/>\nPetty quibbles, trifling differences should not be exaggerated and<br \/>\nmagnified to destroy what is said to have been made in heaven.\n<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"hidden_text\">                                     8<\/span><\/p>\n<p>All quarrels must be weighed from that point of view in<br \/>\ndetermining what constitutes cruelty in each particular case and<br \/>\nas noted above, always keeping in view the physical and mental<br \/>\nconditions of the parties, their character and social status. A too<br \/>\ntechnical   and   hyper-sensitive       approach   would   be   counter-<br \/>\nproductive to the institution of marriage. The Courts do not have<br \/>\nto deal with ideal husband and ideal wives. It has to deal with<br \/>\nparticular man and women before it. The ideal couple or a mere<br \/>\nideal one will probably have no occasion to go to Matrimonial<br \/>\nCourt.\n<\/p>\n<p>      In the instant case, the Family Court has examined in detail<br \/>\nthe conduct of the appellant. On one hand, she stated that she is<br \/>\nnot pursuing the criminal case under Section 498-A I.P.C. and on<br \/>\nthe other hand, she had got her statement recorded before the<br \/>\nCourt. She also filed criminal revision, lodged criminal case under<br \/>\nSection 406 I.P.C. against the respondent and his father. The<br \/>\nfather of the appellant had also filed a complaint case under<br \/>\nSection 420 I.P.C. against the respondent and his father. Not only<br \/>\nthis, the complaints were also made to the authorities of Sahara<br \/>\nIndia, where the respondent was working. On account of various<br \/>\ncomplaints, the respondent had to resign from the Sahara India.<br \/>\nThe Family Court has examined all these facts and passed a<br \/>\ndetailed speaking order before coming to the conclusion that the<br \/>\nmarriage bond has been broken down beyond the hope of repair<br \/>\nand the marriage is only for the namesake.\n<\/p>\n<p>      In view of the fact that the parties are living separately for<br \/>\nmore than nine years and a large number of criminal and civil<br \/>\nproceedings have been initiated against the respondent and some<br \/>\nproceedings have been initiated by the respondent against the<br \/>\nappellant, the Family Court rightly came to the conclusion that the<br \/>\nmatrimonial bond between the parties is beyond repair. The<br \/>\nmarriage between the parties is only in name.\n<\/p>\n<p>      Once the parties have separated and the separation has<br \/>\ncontinued for a sufficient length of time and one of them has<br \/>\npresented a petition for divorce, it can well be presumed that the<br \/>\nmarriage has broken down. The Court seriously made an<br \/>\n<span class=\"hidden_text\">                                   9<\/span><\/p>\n<p>endeavour to reconcile the parties and we wanted to put a quietus<br \/>\nto all litigations between the parties and not to leave any room for<br \/>\nfuture litigations by granting Rs.7 lakhs as permanent alimony,<br \/>\nbut it was refused by the appellant. Therefore, it appears that the<br \/>\nappellant does not want divorce by mutual consent.\n<\/p>\n<p>       From the analysis and evaluation of the entire evidence, it is<br \/>\nclear that the appellant has resolved to live in agony only to make<br \/>\nlife a miserable hell for the respondent as well. This type of<br \/>\nadamant and callous attitude, in the context of the facts of this<br \/>\ncase, leaves no manner of doubt in our minds that the appellant is<br \/>\nbent upon treating the respondent with mental cruelty. The<br \/>\nmarriage has been wrecked beyond the hope of salvage and there<br \/>\nis no chance of their coming together. Therefore, the case law<br \/>\nrelied upon by the appellant and the assertion that the respondent<br \/>\nshall not be allowed to take advance of his own faults and the<br \/>\ndecree for dissolution of the marriage shall be denied to the<br \/>\nrespondent is of no help to the appellant.\n<\/p>\n<p>       In these circumstances, we are of the view that when the<br \/>\nbreakdown is irreparable, then divorce should not be withheld.<br \/>\nThe consequences of preservation in law of the unworkable<br \/>\nmarriage which has long ceased to be effective are abound to be a<br \/>\nsource of greater misery for the parties.\n<\/p>\n<p>       For the reasons aforesaid, the decree of divorce passed by<br \/>\nthe Family Court is upheld. Both the appeals are hereby<br \/>\ndismissed. In the facts and circumstances of the case, the parties<br \/>\nshall bear their own costs.\n<\/p>\n<pre>HM\/-                                  January 18   , 2010\n <\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Allahabad High Court Poornima Misra vs Sunil Misra on 18 January, 2010 1 Reserved First Appeal No. 11 of 2009 Smt. Poornima Misra &#8230; Appellant Versus Sunil Misra &#8230; Respondent Connected with First Appeal No. 10 of 2009 Smt. Poornima Misra &#8230; Appellant Versus Sunil Misra &#8230; Respondent &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- Hon&#8217;ble Rajiv Sharma, J. 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